Harness dildos have slowly made their way into mainstream consciousness. The first time a woman straps on a fully equipped harness dildo maybe a comical site. For any women it certainly a novel experience looking between her thighs and seeing a penis shaped sex toy looking back at her. It is crucial to get used to it so walking around in the harness dildo for a while will soon allow you to become comfortable with it.

A harness dildo isn't about substitution of the male member but allows couples to bring new ideas and techniques into their love-making for both partners to enjoy. It can allow the woman in a straight/gay relationship to feel the power for the first time as she lives out a fantasy of control through different types of love making. For a male who is open to suggestions he can live out a fantasy of submission. The whole idea of the harness love aid is to open up the bedroom to experimentation and this leads to great fun.

If you feel dildos and new sex toys (https://www.mysecretluxury.com/) harness maybe ideal for you then we would suggest three different criteria that you may want to look out for when considering the right one:

- The dildo needs to have a wide flare base (for safety if things get a bit heated).
- Check the dildo is firm and flexible enough for harness use.
- The dildo has at least average male member size i.e. at least 5.5 inches

When you are considering a harness love aid you don't need to use the whole length but a short dildo can be very frustrating as you may end up not getting the desired penetration that you and your partner want. Firmer dildos are recommended for harness use. The ideal choice is the silicone option if they are affordable and in your budget.